The Bible speaks extensively about love—over 500 times in the NIV translation. After much prayer and study, I realized that if I could create a simple, 10-step guide to loving like Jesus, I’d be the richest and most famous person in the world. There would be world peace, no hunger, no poverty, and no hatred. But the reality is, we will never be able to love perfectly like Jesus. We will fail repeatedly. Here’s the good news: We get to spend our lives becoming more like Jesus, learning to love as He does, and then we will spend eternity experiencing the fullness of God’s love! Even though we can’t love perfectly, we can learn from how Jesus demonstrated His love.
A Moment to Reflect
In one sentence, what would you say the Bible is about?
Here’s mine: The Bible is the story of Jesus, who is God’s enduring love for us. I believe this love is revealed in three key ways:
1. A Love That Pursues
- From the very beginning, after the fall, God calls out to Adam, “Where are you?” (Genesis 3:9), seeking him even in the aftermath of sin. Throughout the Old Testament, God places kings, judges, and prophets to lead His people back to Himself. Then, in the New Testament, we see Jesus actively pursuing broken, sinful people with love.
- In Luke 15:1-7 (also in Matthew 18:6-9), Jesus responds to the Pharisees’ judgment of Him for eating with sinners by teaching the parable of the Lost Sheep. He describes how the shepherd leaves the ninety-nine to seek out the one lost sheep and bring it home and there is much rejoicing.
- In John 4, He goes to a well at noon—when no one else would be there—because He knows a Samaritan woman, rejected by her community, will be. This woman, who had many husbands and was considered an outcast, was one of the first people to whom Jesus revealed His full identity: the Son of Man and the Son of God.
- God the Father, through Jesus and with the Holy Spirit, is relentlessly pursuing each of us in love.
2. A Love That Forgives
- Jesus calls us to forgive one another. When Peter asks how many times he should forgive someone, Jesus answers, “Not seven times, but seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:22). Of course, Jesus doesn’t mean we should stop at 490 times—He’s teaching that forgiveness should be endless, just as it is for us when we seek it (1 John 1:9)
- Jesus displays ultimate forgiveness through His death on the cross. Even as He is being crucified, He pleads, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).
- After His resurrection, Jesus asks Simon Peter three times, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” (John 21:15-17). This beautiful moment redeems Peter’s three denials of Jesus, demonstrating the depths of Christ’s forgiveness.
3. A Love That Sacrifices
- Right now, we are in the season of Lent—the 40 days leading up to Easter. It’s a time to meditate on the magnitude of Jesus’ sacrifice: His death on the cross.
- I encourage you to read the Gospel accounts of Jesus’ crucifixion in Matthew 26-27, Mark 14-15, Luke 22-23, and John 18-19. The goal is not to make us feel guilty or ashamed but to stand in awe of the extravagant love, boundless grace, and generous mercy poured out for us by Jesus. This is the pinnacle of love—God’s love pursuing us, forgiving us, and sacrificing for us. Wow.
- There is so much more to be read about God’s pursuit of us, Jesus’ sacrifice for us, and His forgiveness. Yet, if the Bible is so clear about love, why do we struggle so much with it?
The truth is, we can read the Bible over and over. We can memorize it and become experts. But unless we have a personal relationship with Jesus and allow Him to transform us, we will never truly act out of love or love others the way we’ve been commanded. Please do not hear me saying that you shouldn’t read the Bible. Reading the Bible is essential, but it’s how we read it. The Bible isn’t a rulebook for behavior change; it’s the story of God’s enduring love, calling us to move not from bad to good, but from dead to alive. We cannot love like Jesus apart from Jesus. He isn’t just a role model to admire—He is the Son of God who loves us and longs for us to know Him personally. When that is the lens in which we read, it leads to transformation by Jesus so that we can reflect His pursuing, forgiving, and sacrificial love to others.
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